Chris and Erin were married in the "Wintergarden" at Seaport’s World Trade Center in Boston.   As their Officiant, the three of us spent a great deal of time with each other, starting with an initial meeting and then an intimate day with each other as I facilitated the creation of their marriage vision.  

As we began to design the actual ceremony itself, we discussed the importance of it being a true reflection all aspects of their relationship including their vision and commitment to a lifetime partnership that was supportive, serious, adventurous, fun and laughter filled.  The final ceremony was intimate, sweet and meaningful.

On the day of the wedding I arrived at Erin's room to check in before the ceremony.  She said she needed to show me something that would make me laugh.  She pulled out these big pink sunglasses, and yes I laughed..because almost at the beginning of their vows was a line that was so reflective of  them ..."I vow to wear big sunglasses, and never take myself too seriously."

As we discussed when she was going to bring these out, I joked about doing so right before their vows and Erin loved it!  So at the appropriate time, right as I was introducing the vows I pulled these glasses out from under a table, spoke a few unrehearsed words and Chris and Erin burst out laughing, as did their loving community!  

While it might be a bit odd for some, this was ideal for them and after much laughter, the glasses were removed and Chris and Erin proceeded to exchange their vows and rings.  The ceremony concluded on a more eloquent note as the Unity Candle was lit and a final blessing offered.    Congratulations Chris and Erin!  I look forward to many years of laughter and friendship with you!   Picture courtesy of Studio Noir